I am going to start communication with you guys on my journal instead of using the forums.  Things are getting better at home.  Julie is still trying to decide what to do. She got a job here where I work,  but her husband called her yesterday crying and saying he loved her and would she wait for him until they got the kids raised !!  Can you believe that ?  He has a son 16 and her son is 14.  I hesitate to give any advice.  It is her life and I will not interfere,  but she has Robby already enrolled in school up here and just got the job yesterday.  I hate for things being in limbo,  I can face anything I have to but I hate uncertainty.   Anyway, that is an update so let me hear from you guys.

Love to you all !!1